wilwheaton:

the-diary-of-a-failure:

It took me so long to get my own ass to therapy. Today I present you my reasons why and therefore speed up your own decision process:

• Get it all out -You can talk about everything that bothers and hurts you without actually dumping all the negative energy on your friends. Don’t get me wrong, you should totally talk to your friends about these things but not all the time. Therapists are paid for sitting and listenting to you and offering advice, your friends aren’t. Therapist also know how to cope with bad news, your friends don’t necessarily do.
• Professional supervision -Your problems might be really bad. Like “suicidal” bad. In that case you absolutely must get a psychiatrist, who’ll help you.
• Someone rational -A therapist will give you a rational point of view to your problems, because they don’t have their emotions involved. Especially if you suffer with anxiety, you’d probably use some rationalising.
• Solutions exist -They probably won’t turn you into an all time positive and happy, healthy person but damn feeling okay sounds nice doesn’t it?
• It’s okay -Even if you think your problems aren’t “big enough” or “serious enough” you should try therapy out, if you’re not feeling good. Believe it or not but being happy or calm or just simply okay is the basic setting of a healthy brain. After something bad passes you should go back to being happy. If you don’t or you feel like bad things never pass… give therapy a try.

Take care

One of the lies Depression tells us is that going to therapy won’t make a difference, or we’ll be bothering the therapist, or the therapist will judge us.

This is when I need to remind myself, my Depression, and anyone who is listening that THERAPISTS EXIST BECAUSE THEY HAVE LITERALLY DEDICATED THEIR LIVES TO HELPING PEOPLE LIKE ME GET BETTER.

Say it again, say it louder: A THERAPIST IS NOT GOING TO JUDGE YOU OR MOCK YOU OR LAUGH AT YOU OR TREAT YOU LIKE YOU ARE CRAZY. A THERAPIST IS GOING TO USE ALL THE YEARS OF STUDY AND PRACTICE THEY HAVE TO HELP YOU.

You aren’t a burden. You aren’t unreasonable. You aren’t the only person, or the first person, to feel the things you are feeling. You deserve to be happy and you deserve to live your best life. A therapist has dedicated their life to helping you do that.

Okay, that was a lot of ALL CAPS stuff, but it’s important.

I disappeared again XD

My excuse this time is that I’m kinda swamped with gacha type adopt orders over at deviant art. 

I’ll work on restocking the TFLN themed shit posts during my lunch hour at work

pmseymourva:

Sometimes you’re gonna have to be your own Senpai, and notice yourself.

Notice how wonderful you really are. 👉👉

imawitchywitch:

My therapist, who is probably in her late 40′s, told me she never pursued more artistic opportunities in her younger years because one teacher told her she wasn’t a “good artist”. Now after taking art lessons the past few years she is pursuing an art therapy license.

I sit here and sing along to my iTunes remembering how I was punished as a child in elementary choir class which made me avoid choir like the plague as I grew older. I took band classes instead, which I stunk at, making me feel like I would always be a failure musically. Today, I can for the most part carry a tune and even harmonize, and can make up songs pretty quickly.

We need to remember that the arts are meant to be FUN, subjective, and a form of self expression instead of telling kids they are “good” or “bad”, “talented” and “not talented”. The arts are not meant to be graded.

spider-boiii:

lgbtq–stuff:

ahahaha….  Been too busy with work and adopt orders over at Deviant Art that I failed to keep an eye on the number of TFLN shit posts in drafts/queue XD

Will be a few days of radio silence but I’ll have them queued up for everyone’s enjoyment again

Originally posted by acesawamuras

fakehistory:

Jean-Claude Van Damme Performs the Epic Split (2013, colorized)

quincette:

daeva-agas:

friendsim-kinksim:

beariere:

penprp:

ghostkwan:

hermes-is-my-homeboy:

hermes-is-my-homeboy:

ashashi-corner:

flargahblargh:

violaslayvis:

hermes-is-my-homeboy:

yo-daddys-my-bitch:

May the 10 of Pentacles bless your account with more money than you can spend. 💵✨

10 of Pentz came thruuu

Omg this actually works!!! Thank you 10 of Pentacles!!!

I could seriously use this money right now….

Please give me my refund of 400$ soon…

I feel obligated to reblog this every time it shows up in my dash

No bragging, just 100% floored and grateful. Work hard, maintain a positive attitude, and believe that anything can happen.

So I reblogged this exactly a week ago because I thought it was funny and uh lo and behold, a family friend wrote me a big ol’ check just to help me out of a tough financial spot AND my bank refunded me $32 for fees they’d originally taken out. SO UH YEAH. Reblogging this again in hopes that it brings equally good fortune to my followers.

Sure why not? Jobs bring in money and prosperity…

Originally posted by gabalecki

Need this

This kinda stuff never seemed to work for me

But why not, right? Hahahahaha

quincette:

catchymemes:

That’s a deep… dock.

by Penzilla

Tumblr: @pennypenzilla

🎵 Whoooo lives inside a pineapple under the sea 🎵

goyangiiart:

lin-ful:

shangaii-chan:

otome-cinnamonrolls:

How you feel when you realize you’ve played the main story, epilogue, sequel, sequel epilogue, HIS PoV, season 1, 2, 3, Voiced special , Proposal special, Proposal PoV, Wedding special, Wedding PoV, Christmas special, Valentine special, Birthday special, Baby special, Baby PoV, With pet special, Pet PoV, Random special, Random PoV etc. etc. of a certain Voltage cinnamon roll….

@lin-ful you with Eisuke, me with Nomura

I wont deny. ♡ eisuke is worth it

shuttershocky:

kawacy:

since Nobu is kind of dominant,
I think it’s really cute the fact that she’s shorter than her girlfriend XD

Nobu and Okita from Fate/Grand Order

If I stop reblogging this it means i’ve died.

end0skeletal:

The Japanese dwarf flying squirrel may be the cutest thing I’ve ever seen with my own two eyeballs.

mostlysignssomeportents:

Microsoft has a DRM-locked ebook store that isn’t making enough money, so they’re shutting it down and taking away every book that every one of its customers acquired effective July 1.

Customers will receive refunds.

This puts the difference between DRM-locked media and unencumbered media into sharp contrast. I have bought a lot of MP3s over the years, thousands of them, and many of the retailers I purchased from are long gone, but I still have the MP3s. Likewise, I have bought many books from long-defunct booksellers and even defunct publishers, but I still own those books.

When I was a bookseller, nothing I could do would result in your losing the book that I sold you. If I regretted selling you a book, I didn’t get to break into your house and steal it, even if I left you a cash refund for the price you paid.

People sometimes treat me like my decision not to sell my books through Amazon’s Audible is irrational (Audible will not let writers or publisher opt to sell their books without DRM), but if you think Amazon is immune to this kind of shenanigans, you are sadly mistaken. My books matter a lot to me. I just paid $8,000 to have a container full of books shipped from a storage locker in the UK to our home in LA so I can be closer to them. The idea that the books I buy can be relegated to some kind of fucking software license is the most grotesque and awful thing I can imagine: if the publishing industry deliberately set out to destroy any sense of intrinsic, civilization-supporting value in literary works, they could not have done a better job.

https://boingboing.net/2019/04/02/burning-libraries.html